Mind Management Angela May

16Jul/102

I’m Back with a New Work Flow!

Hello, Internets! Just as promised, I'm baaaaaaaaack!

I honestly missed writing quite a bit! Taking the break was the right decision but I'm very glad to be back. Thank you all for being so supportive of my mini-hiatus.

First things first, I have a confession to make. When I started this blog, I promised that I would share with you how I organized things, and that I would let you know when I discovered that something isn't working. This is one of those times.

At the beginning of the year, I set a new process flow:

  • Priorities were identified and SMART Goals were RANKED
  • Success Metrics would be TRACKED weekly
  • I assigned different goals for every month of the year. In January I would focus on this. In April I would focus on that.

Well, here we are, in July. More than six months of the year have drained by. Don't get me wrong, I have managed to accomplish a few things.

First and foremost: I have a frickin' BOOK (Wasted Talent Book One, currently at the printer). So much of my energy has gone into this, it's not even funny. It was worth it... except that it took way WAY longer than I was hoping it would. Thinking back I don't think I could have worked harder, but it's just depressing when I think of the sum-total of time I spent on this book.

I got frickin' MARRIED. Again, another thing that I am kind of bashing my head against the wall at how long it took. Wayyy too much time, money and energy. But I only had to do it once and it is over now.  The day was great and I am so happy to have Trevor and just be married to him. (Should the unthinkable happen to our marriage -  I'm just going to elope next time ;) ;) )

I suffered through a FLOOD and a MAJOR RENO. Our kitchen was completely torn apart, walls were ripped out and rotated, floors were redone. I couldn't wash a dish for two months.  When you live in less than 800sqft, any little disruption makes a HUGE impact, especially on my poor little control-freak brain. The kitchen reno was happening either way, the flood just expanded the work-zone farther than we were hoping. But it's done! Done done done! The apartment is vastly improved.

These three major things took up way more time and energy than I was predicting, and as a result all of my "timelines" are thrown out the window. I also completely failed on the weekly tracking thing. I have a few things that were tracked automatically, like traffic, and other things that I've been tracking week-to-week, like chores and whether I worked out, but I haven't saved those records. I initially built a Google Doc to track it, but I just don't spend that much time on Google Docs.

When I evaluate my current standing compared to the goals I set at the beginning of the year, it's depresing. But I decided, rather than being depressed about how "behind" I am on everything, I'll develop a new way of doing things.

NEW PROCESS

  • Still using ranked priorities and SMART goals
  • Not going to obsess over tracking metrics. I am still looking for a way to track metrics that will fit suitably in my life, but for now I'd rather spend my precious energy DOING rather than TRACKING.

Here is the biggest shift:

  • All of my goals are now divided into "habits" and "projects"

HABITS are something that need to be done repeatedly: every day, week or month (like working out, or writing a blog post, or getting dressed nicely.) Success is determined by how OFTEN and CONSISTENTLY you do it.
PROJECTS have a defined beginning, middle and end. Success is determined by whether it's done or not (1/0).

It's a pretty clear division, but when I set my goals at the beginning of the year, habits and projects were all mashed together with varying priorities.

HERE IS THE NEW RULE

  • You can only build (or break) one new habit at a time.
  • You can only tackle one project at a time, and you need to focus on it until it is DONE.

I'm not going to dwell so much on the "when". (such as, in April I will learn to ride my bike to work (I didn't) or I will finish my book by March (yeah, whoops.)) The "When" will always be "as soon as possible". When you finish one habit or project, you move onto the next most important one. Immediately. The order and priority is what concerns me.

So that's that.

I'm very excited by the new set of goals I have to tackle now that these huuuuge major ones are out of the way, and I'm glad to start posting again.

I'll let you know how this goes.

13Apr/102

Weekly Goal Review – part 3 of 3

In previous posts, I taught you what a List Binder is and how to make one, and a strategy for scheduling your Work Days. But what do you do when you go home?

1Apr/100

Weekly List Review – part 2 of 3

How to Schedule Your Work Week.

Last week, I told you about a strategy to organize all the different projects and responsibilities you have going on in your life. Now that you have all the "next steps" that you need to do written down for every project, it's STILL paralyzing. There's so much to do, and you will still be stuck trying to decide what the most important thing you should be working on is.

This week, I'm going to help you break that giant binder full of lists into ONE LIST of actions that you are going to tackle this week.

** Note, this strategy is best for your WORK DAY, when you have eight full hours to dedicate to the tasks. I use a different strategy to plan my PERSONAL LIFE and PERSONAL GOALS, which I'll go over in part 3. If your work is more flexible (if you are self-employed for example and are free to mix up personal chores and professional obligations) your resulting system might be a mix of the two strategies.

26Mar/106

The List Binder (part 1 of 3)

Never Let Anything Slip Through the Cracks Again!

Do you ever get the feeling that there's something important that you're NOT doing? There's something... ARGH- it was right on the tip of your brain!

Isn't it infuriating to have a spare moment to think and you KNOW you could be maximizing it to its full potential if you JUST. KNEW. WHAT. TO. DO!

Then the moment passes, and you find something else to occupy the time.

Weeks later you're reminded of a project you were assigned to and - DRAT, the deadline is coming up and now you're snowed under with tasks!

At work and in my life I have a LOT going on. A lot of different projects and responsibilities, all with different tasks, different priority levels, different timelines, different consequences and rewards. It's a lot to keep on top of, and I certainly couldn't do it on my own.

Recently I started using a system I've nicknamed the "One Note Binder" (because I designed it when I was frustrated that I couldn't use Microsoft OneNote at work) or the "List Binder". I thought I'd share my process with you all...

8Feb/106

Conquer Email – 1 of 2

Things are getting kind of busy around here with some upcoming conventions, my apologies for missing last Friday's post! To compensate, this week I'll update twice, with this two part series on Email managment. These are my own personal email management strategies.

Part 1: Getting out of the mess you're already in

5Oct/090

Turning your Goals into ACTIONS

Nanaimo, BC

Nanaimo, BC

If you've been through my list of goal-setting excercises, you should have a pretty long list of goals. Some of them might be very lofty and fanciful, and others might be very simple and immediate.

Go through your list of goals and ask yourself for each one: what will I need to accomplish BEFORE I can tackle that goal?

8Sep/091

Prioritizing: Five Questions You Should Ask Yourself

Car Garden in Toronto, Ontario

Car Garden in Toronto, Ontario

The flip-side of creating Awesome Actions Lists and getting really good at finding your working groove is you can sometimes lose yourself in the details. You get obsessed with the trees, and lose sight of the forest.
It's easy to get so swept-up in something that it overwhelms your mind. When you immerse yourself in an activity, or an event, or a group, the internal drama and internal "priorities" can seem SO IMPORTANT. In hindsight, however, you can often look at how much time and emotional energy you invested in that single activity and wonder if it was really worth it.
If you're feeling overwhelmed by your action list and everything seems urgent, take a moment to step back and look at the big picture. Ask yourself these five key questions of every task on your list:

1) If I DON'T do this right now, what is the worst thing that could happen?

    Really step out of your current situation and look at your tasks as if you were an outsider. If you don't get enough money to pay the rent on time, you'll get evicted. If you don't finish your essay on time, you'll lose some credit towards a grade. If you don't submit a piece to an online contest, some person on the internet might be a bit disappointed. Now, in hindsight, getting evicted because you skipped work to finish that piece for the online contest would seem pretty silly. When you're emotionally wrapped up in the contest, it can seem like a really tough choice to make, but really boil things down to THE WORST thing that will happen. If you finish your shift at work, then your essay, you might still have time to submit something to the contest (bonus)! But if you did things in the opposite order, the consequences are much more severe.
3Sep/090

How to Write Awesome Action Lists

Quebec City
Quebec City

We all have a massive list of things to do hanging over our heads. (Or things we should be doing. Or things we wish we had time to do.)

Many people shy away from the idea of an Action List (or a "To Do" list). Seeing all those tasks in front of you can be daunting. But the devil you know is a lot easier to fight than the devil you don't. Once your problems are out in front of you, you will be able to break them down and tackle them: piece by piece. By having a step-by-step plan spelled out in front of you, it's easy to get in a groove and mechanically work through the list. You'll be amazed by how much you can get done!

Mind Management…

...is about getting the most out of life. These are my own personal strategies for figuring out where I need to go and how to get there. Whether you're an "over achiever", or just need help finding balance, these tips might help!

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