Two quick tips for introverts
I wrote this article on introverts and extraverts recently.
When I first wrote the draft I started writing tips, but I soon realized it was out of balance. I had lots of tips for introverts, but I wasn't confident writing tips for extraverts because, um, I'm not one. It's difficult for me to truly understand the other side, so if you're an extravert I encourage you to share your thoughts in the comments!
I am a terminal introvert, the kind that freaks out when they have to talk to some one face-to-face and craves time alone in a cave.
These tips come from direct experience.
1) "Faking it" is very effective!
The people you know are key to your success, so even if it's uncomfortable you have to learn to go out and talk to people you've never met. The best strategy I've found to do this is... just pretend you're an extravert!
Of course it's not as easy as it sounds- I do have to psych myself up for a few days beforehand, and then spend a few days afterward charging my 'introvert batteries'... but when I go to an event I just approach every situation, every conversation as I think an extravert would. I've actually gotten good enough at it to fool some people, but I can only keep it up for a day or two. After that I get very cranky :[
2) Remember to Recharge
When I feel really drained, I try to spend as much time as possible alone. Avoid meetings. Bury my nose in a book.
It can be tough when you're on the go, but sometimes even an hour in a quiet cafe can help your batteries recharge. My few most-treasured friends also have the effect of charging my batteries instead of draining them! Seek out your BFFs.
So, let me know! What are some of your personal tricks for dealing with life as an introvert or extravert?